Wednesday, October 27, 2010

Another Book

In case you are wondering, here's what I ended up doing about giving Meghan's book back:

I read the other book she lent me and gave them back at the same time. I really did like the second book (which I will get into in a minute) so it wasn't hard to talk about how much I liked it and kinda brush over the first book completely.

The other book she gave me was Sundays at Tiffany's by James Patterson. I have never actually read any of his other books, but even I can tell you that this one is not his normal fare. He's more thriller/mystery and this was more feel good romance - with a twist. But I really enjoyed it.

I'll give you a brief synopsis without actually ruining it. Basically it's the story of a girl who has an imaginary friend when she's 8. He's pretty much the perfect man: he's a great listener, he tells her she's beautiful, and gives her the support that she's lacking in the parent arena. But, according to Imaginary Friend rules, he has to leave her when she turn 9. Then, 20+ years later, she runs into him.

This story was really intriguing to me. It's based on the idea that these friends actually do exist and are simply invisible to those who aren't supposed to see them. They go around from kid to kid helping them learn about themselves and the world around them. It shows a little of what they do when they are between kids. It was fun to read and not too heavy on the content so I was able to read it in one sitting.

The things I didn't like were minor. The ending felt a little hap hazard. Almost like the author hadn't made up his mind on how it was going to end until the last 4 or 5 pages. But he's a mystery writer, I guess he was just trying to keep the reader on his toes. And of course there was a page or two that I skipped completely because of the content. But you see it coming a mile away, so it's easy to avoid.

Overall, a fun read. And I'm glad that Meghan lent it to me. (It's now being passed around the office. I think Jillian is reading it next.) And not only because I got to use it as a cover for the other book that I never actually got more than about 60 pages into. :)

My next book will be: The Help by Kathryn Stockett

Tuesday, October 19, 2010

BOOKS

Recently I decided that I wanted to read good books. I’ve always been a reader. It’s in my blood. But I felt like I wasn’t reading anything that was really making me grow or learn. I was reading fluffy fun books that didn’t have much more value than pure entertainment. Don’t get me wrong, there is always a place for that in life, but I want to be a better person after I read.

So I immediately thought of my friend Melissa. She has a degree in English Lit and has read everything. Her blog often consists of book reviews as she constantly reads. I went there first, and decided to read everything that she recommended. I sent her an email and told her that I wanted her to educate me on excellent literature.  She sent me a list of over 100 books that I had to read. I’d already read some, but the list is still significant.

I’d love to use this blog as a way to express my thoughts about some of these books as I read them. Here’s what I’ve read since beginning my quest to “be well read” as Mel would say.

Killer Angels

I have always loved Gettysburg PA. Since moving to the East Coast with my family more than 10 years ago we have been to many of the American History sites. But none has moved me quite as much as that battlefield. There is a spirit of sacrifice and dedication and peace that pervades the area. And since it’s not like most tourist sites (it’s acres of land, not a building or monument) it’s a lot easier to be alone and soak in all in.

Killer Angels by Michael Shaara is a fantastic book. It is the story of the battle of Gettysburg told through multiple voices. I love it because it treats both sides fairly. We were all Americans just trying to do what was right, and Killer Angels depicts that. No one who fought that day was perfect, but it’s wonderful to see how good a lot of them were. It taught me to see them as people instead of stories or history test fodder. I highly recommend it. I couldn’t put it down, even though I knew how it was going to end.

Also, the movie Gettysburg is an adaptation of this book and is likewise quite excellent. (If you have 3 hours to dedicate to it.)

The Hunger Games (Series)

I don’t even know where to start. I guess I’ll start at the beginning.

I first heard of this book in a class at BYU. It was a class about adolescents and we had to read a book written for an adolescent audience and then do a book report about it. There were a lot of people who read The Hunger Games by Suzanne Collins and they all really loved it. I was intrigued. So when Mel also recommended it I decided to see what all the hype was about. Plus the third and final book in the series had just come out the day before and I got the boxed set pretty cheap.

The Hunger games – book one

I agreed with everyone. This book was amazing. It was very graphic and potent and had some very vivid visuals (and I’m not a very visual person in general). Again, I couldn’t put it down. There was danger and excitement on every page as well as some good insights into what it means to be human. There was also very little resolution at the end so I didn’t wait more than 20 seconds before I started the 2nd one.

Catching Fire – book two

This book was also well written and had some of the same elements, but I felt it lacked the originality of the first. It honestly felt like she was trying to do the first book over again. I found myself getting annoyed with some of the characters instead of caring about them. But again, major cliff hanger, so I went right to the 3rd even though it was about 3 in the morning.


Mockingjay – book three

This book was not great. If I read it by itself I might have had a higher opinion of it, but I couldn’t help comparing it to the other two and feeling disappointed. I felt like the whole feel of the series had changed and I honestly stopped caring by the end. Even less than caring, I was mad and confused and just wanted to throw the book across the room.

When my sister asked me what these books were about I summed it up by saying it was like Twilight meets The Lord of the Flies. That sounds crazy, but I think if you’ve read it you’ll know what I mean.

The Age of Innocence by Edith Wharton

This was a major shift in genre from Hunger Games and it took me a few days to really get into the swing of it, but then I was hooked. It’s the story of the wealthy families in New York in 1860. I found it really interesting to think about all of the social class things happening in the US. I have always associated dinner parties and servants and evenings at the theater with England and Austen. When I think of those years in American history I'm usually thinking about the Civil War and about how everyday people lived in the country. I guess I just hadn't ever thought about people who lived like Englishmen in New York. But that that was part of the story. How those older traditions were starting to fall apart, and how the world was changing around them. The question that the characters ask themselves is whether or not this change is good or bad. Brilliant book.

The Red Tent by Anita Diamant

This is the story of Dinah the daughter of Jacob and Leah from the Old Testament. It is obviously fictionalized and filled in since there’s only about 35 verses about her in the Bible. Here’s what I wrote to Mel shortly after finishing it:

So. The Red Tent.
There were things that I really liked about it, and some things that I really didn't like about it. First the likes: I didn't want to put it down. I got really caught up in the story. Also, I found myself wishing for the sisterhood and for the matriarchal line that was so much a part of their lives. Especially at the end when she's dying and she sees all the women who were influential in her life. I really wish that Womanhood was more celebrated in our culture. I liked the whole idea of women telling the stories of the women from generation to generation. I also really liked seeing Leah's side of the story. When I read the old testament account of Jacob, I always felt bad for Rachel. This made me realize that Leah was a real person too, and made me think about how she must have felt about the whole thing. It was shocking but good to remember how freaking young they all were.
What I didn't like was how graphic it was. I know that it was realistic, but I felt uncomfortable with some of the details that were given. I was also troubled by how un-religious it was. I wanted Jacob's wives to support him in his faith, but instead the author seemed to show all faith (whatever God you were worshiping) as important only as a tradition, without any real power. I had to separate the Bible story from it completely in order to enjoy it. Once I thought of them as simply fictional characters it was easier to like them, because I wasn't expecting anything from them.
I had very mixed feelings when it ended. I still do. But I'm still thinking about it, which in and of itself is a good thing. It wasn't forgettable that's for sure. I don't think I'll recommend it to just anyone, but  I am glad that I read it.

The Secret Life of Bees by Sue Monk Kidd

I LOVED this book. There were a lot of themes addressed and there’s no way I can get into all of them, but  I loved Lily because she really learned to forgive and rely on herself and a higher power to make her life better than the situation she was given. And again, like what I enjoyed about Red Tent, I loved the portrayal of sisterhood and the power that women have to build each other up. I’m a strong believer in the fact that women will always need other women in their lives.

Vanishing Acts by Jodi Picoult

This one was not on my list from Melissa. I was talking about how much I love to read with a coworker of mine and she evidently reads a ton too. So I told her I’d lend her The Secret Life of Bees and she gave me this book. Jodi Picoult wrote My Sister’s Keeper which they made a movie of recently, but I’d never seen it or read the book. But Meghan recommended it so I thought I’d give it a try.

Now I have a dilemma. How do you give a book back to a friend and say “oh, I couldn’t get into it. I tried  probably 10 times to read it and I got about 4 chapters in, but couldn’t make it further than that.” Especially after she just loved the book you recommended to her.

Any suggestions? I feel bad starting something else before I give her book back, but I also haven’t really read anything for a while now because I don’t want to read that one. So I need to just move on I guess. But what do I say to Meghan?

I’ll try to keep you updated on my progress through The List. I am also crazy busy with a million other things in my life and I will blog about that later this week. :)

Sunday, October 17, 2010

Just a note

I just want to write a brief note telling you all that I promise to Blog this week. I have a bunch of things I want to say, so I've decided to take some time this week and get it all actually out there. You all have permission to yell at me if I don't follow through.

Love,

Me....

Thursday, September 16, 2010

Another Confession

I am completely addicted to this Telenovela. I'm ashamed to admit that it started on my mission. I saw bits and pieces of it in Ecuador (it was re-running there) and was always slightly curious. I got home and watched what I could find, but that wasn't much. Well, I'm not exactly sure how I found it again last week, but I started at the beginning and am slowly but surely devouring every episode.

It's just as horrible as the stereotype. You think american soaps are bad... they've got nothing on Telenovelas. But I can't stop! I know they end up together, because it's obvious, but I have to find out how! How is she going to forgive him? Will she ever tell him that Frijolito is his son? What about his fiance and her evil (seriously evil) mother? Will they ruin everyone's lives? Can Francisco get over his wife? Will Dulce and Daniela ever get along? What if Margarita marries Francisco instead of Ignacio?! Will Don Pedro and Angelica ever love each other? And then there's little Frijolito. He's so freaking CUTE!

The one upside is: I'm speaking Spanish by accident again.

I have a lot of other things to say (mostly about books), but I'm still trying to figure out what to say exactly. That's why I haven't written for so long: I'm trying to be profound. ...not that this post shows much of that. :)

Thursday, July 15, 2010

What's new?

So I haven't blogged for a while. My bad.

Guess what! I'm finally writing! I actually have a number of things to say, so I guess it's about time I wrote.

First off, I need to mention Michigan. A Couple of weeks ago I drove with my whole family up to Detroit to visit some old family friends. Their oldest daughter, one of my very bestest friends, Jessica Ellison, was going to the temple for the first time and she'd asked me to be there. So we went. It was a wonderful experience. The temple is such a blessing and it was one of the best moments of my life to share that time with someone I love so much.

Next: I got a job! I'll be working in the Annual Renewals department of The Corporation Service Company! "Wait" you say, "didn't you want to go into Social Work?" Well, yes I did, and do, but the ultimate goal for right now is to earn enough money to be able to pay off some debt and afford to move out of my parents' house. Grad School will come later. Until then I figure I'll take whatever job will hire me. Especially because it's a company I'm already really comfortable with, they have a great benefits package, I can carpool to work with my dad, and as I get to know more about my Singles Branch it turns out half of them work there too. (Something to do with the Branch President being the CEO...) I'll be starting on Monday. I'm really really happy to finally be getting a paycheck.

In other news, living at home just got harder. I knew that it was going to be difficult to try to maintain any kind of independence while living here. But I was beginning to make it work. Well, it's a long story, but there is a family from our ward who has run into some very very hard times. They are moving in with us. Which means that there is no longer room in the house for me to have my own room. Victoria is moving into my room... or moving back into her room... however you want to look at it. And as much as I love Tia... it's going to be a trial for us both. But we're already talking it through and I think we'll live. The real trick is getting all of her stuff and all my stuff into the smallest bedroom in the house. Wish us luck.

And I have a confession to make: I actually decided to blog today because I ran across this video. Since I started this blog as an assignment for a class on Media, I still have that in mind. I laughed so hard when I saw this I knew I had to share it. If you haven't seen the commercial that this is a parody of, it's in one of my older posts.



Oh, the number of times I have pushed myself around on those carts... working at the HBLL was the greatest thing ever! And this guy is absolutely hilarious (he's a member of BYU's Standup comedy group HumorU).




I'm also really really excited these days because I'm making plans with some of my old roommates to get together in a couple of months. It gets hard to see each other when you all live in different states, but we are bound and determined to make it work! (PS, I'm seriously down for London 2012, by the way.) We're gonna party it up like it was 2006. Back when no one had gone on missions, or was married, or had children... crazy what can happen in 4 short years isn't it?

Saturday, May 29, 2010

Plans

Someone told me once that if you want to make God laugh all you have to do is make a plan. It seems that it's true. I had my own plan for how the next year or so of my life was going to go, but then the Lord stepped in and made some changes.

I'm currently living at home again (yikes!) and trying to find a job. This was part of my original plan, but the timing has changed. And now I'm not sure about what will happen in the nest year or two. It's kinda exciting. And kinda terrifying. (I guess that means I'm excited and scared.) But I have faith that I'll learn something from the whole experience. (As in, I'll know things now, many valuable things, that I hadn't known before.)

In other news: Victoria and I are going to see Into the Woods tonight. Her High School is putting it on. I'm pretty excited (and NOT scared) because Cab always does a really good job with their productions.

Tuesday, April 13, 2010

Memorial

Today I feel very grateful for the Spirit that good music can bring to an emotional time.

We had a memorial service for my uncle today. He passed away last week and it has been a very difficult time for my family. But my dad was able to fly into town and spend a day or two with us and that was nice. My dad also has a wonderful voice and it was such a blessing to hear him sing. His voice has comforted me since I was born, and today was just the same. He sang This Is The Christ. He was really worried about it before hand because he didn't feel well prepared but it was amazing. I felt the Spirit very strongly.

I am very grateful for my knowledge of the Plan of Salvation. I know that my family can be together forever -- even when we have been separated in this life. I am grateful for the fact that the Lord has a plan for our lives and that we can have faith in that when things get hard. I know that He took my uncle Karl at this time because it will be a turning point in my family. I know that Karl will be working to help heal the rifts that have been causing pain for so many years.

I am grateful for a family full of faithful priesthood holders who are able to bless and testify. Thank you Scott, Brian, Kent, John and Daddy. You are all brilliant examples of what men should be. I am grateful for the most amazing grandparents who have ever lived. They have changed my life forever. I am grateful for parents who have taught me the gospel and how to always see the best and give the benefit of the doubt to everyone. I love you. 

Thanks.